23. marca 2008 13:53:46 CET
My dream is to get married with my Mistress
Hello! My true dream is to get married with my beloved Mistress. She doesn't knows yet about my intentions. I even scared to say her about my dream. She is so superior and beautiful and I am sure there are a lot of men who would marry her with a big pleasure. This idea makes me crazy. I every time imagine her close to me every day. I would give her all my respect and support. I would give her al my love and money. I would never jealous her and ready to be a cuckold because I understand that a true slave should be happy if his Mistress have a pleasure.. even with other man.
I have read on others forums that usually D/S marriages where she is a dominant are not long and most of then end up with a divorce because one of both partners lose bdsm interest to opposite side. Hear that some couple in such marriages had to make a choice or continue bdsm or live like "vanilla" couple. I am asking myself why it could happened.. that they do not want to continue bdsm life anymore if they were so interested in this part and could bring lot of fun and pleasure. Is it really impossible to mix normal "vanilla" life and bdsm? I would like to have children with my Mistress but we never had sex yet.
Maybe some of you have an experience to be married with a Mistress so please tell me about it... How it works in real life? How should behave a slave in this relationship that a Mistress could keep her interest to her slave-husband? What things usually destroy such relationships? Maybe Mistresses who married with their subs could give me some advice how to keep mistress' interest to me and how to treat her that she felt happy with me.
I will be happy to read any opinions regarding my subject.
Thank you for your interest.
15. mája 2008 23:51:25 CEST
wow..thats a nice dream..its my dream too...i hope that dream come true one day
15. mája 2008 12:45:09 CEST
I confirm in some statements some ladies did before. marriage ist the aim every dominant lady likes to reach!
The rules i guess in such a relationship are very clear-or?
But there´s something more then just finding a submissve gentleman-the chemistry must work i guess
14. mája 2008 20:00:58 CEST
Marriage is abomination.[EOL]
14. mája 2008 3:32:14 CEST
Here's hoping for a Domme to whisk me away into 24/7 relationship where we both feed of each others desires and emotions of affection.
But is it an aspiration or just a dream as I have been searching for years now.
12. apríla 2008 15:26:10 CEST
Hi!
On my opinion, - don't listen somebody's opinions! Lead your own mind & experience. Have a good talk with your Lady, she'll answer all your questions. Don't scare, do your best
12. apríla 2008 4:53:54 CEST
@ Chiapas58: You seem to suffer the Salvator-Complex. It might be a nice romantic idea to save the princess'/Virgin's/... life - and to get married with her. This happens in fairytales or movies.
But be realistic! It would for almost 100% end up in a desaster.
3. apríla 2008 23:05:07 CEST
Hi , I am a submissive boy/man (born 1958) from Milan , North-Italy . I have a dream : to merry (well , not really merry , not immediately – anyway) an East-european (or Asiatic) prostitute who is exploited by the racket – in order to live an authentic submissive situation and share with her this sort of social bondage (I believe , anyway , I will be able to manage the situation and free her at the end….) . What you think ? Any suggestion ?
3. apríla 2008 16:17:57 CEST
"Do you think is it normal when some dominant women try to demand something from a person they never met?"
When you write in your profile tha you are submissive, you only give an information concerning your erotic, bdsm preferencies. It does not mean tha you are submissive socially and that your social status should be any lower than social status of anybody else, including dominas and that anybody should have the right to demand respect and submissive behaviour. Those dominas who do it violate one of the foremost principles of BDSM - the principle of consensuality.
I encounter this abusive behaviour all the time I have been in the bdsm scene and many times I expressed my opinion on this, however, without any substantial results. This is one of the reasons I have changed this information in my profile - from "submissive" to "switch." Logically - if this bit of information classifies you as a social submissive and does not guarantee any right to social respect, then according to the same logic declaring yourself as a dominant should guarantee you a respected social position.
3. apríla 2008 11:26:37 CEST
Hello! I want to thank you all who sent me PM with some advice regarding my question.
I also thank you all ladies who sent me mails and pictures and offered to start a relationship. I flattered very much by this fact. But have to inform you, my dear ladies, I owned already and full in love to my Mistress and would love to marry Her. I just wanted to know if this kind of marriages work in real life and need advice from experienced in this way people who married with their Dom or Sub. It is very important to me to keep bdsm part in my marriage. I just afraid that if we marry we or one of us can lose the bdsm interest to each other. It seems it is not easy at all to mix a normal vanilla life with all it's problems and bdsm. In almost all letters I have got by this time people write only about negative experience. Would be great if some one could write to me some analyze why it happened and why bdsm part gone from their life after marriage. What are usual mistakes? How slave should behave to keep his Mistress' interest to him and let her feel comfortable in this relationships? I take it very seriously so please do not write me any silly jokes (I have got few of them). For me it is very important.
Another question ( out of this topic). Do you think is it normal when some dominant women try to demand something from a person they never met? I have got few letters from mistresses with offensive words and from the beginning they try to demand my obedience and other things. Dear ladies, as I have wrote in my profile I am not looking for another mistress. Please, be more polite and intelligent when you contact to any person you never met. Please do not expect that I will respect and obey to any woman who wrote in her profile she is a Mistress, Goddess, Madam etc. I have a deep respect to dominant women but still I do adore and do obey only to my Mistress I owned by and I am here looking for friends and people we can share experience and talk about bdsm. I am a member of few bdsm communities but only here met such a strange attitude.
Wish to all all the best and will be happy if you share with me your experience and give me some advice.
Thank you
