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• Nenufer

  

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  20. mája 2008 2:52:21 CEST

  Hi I`v been looking through the posts,as I am looking to find a long term mistress! Is it possible as the posts all seem to point to scammers!UK only please
  If anyone could help please pm me.
  
• dustatyourfeet

  
   

  9. júna 2008 12:48:14 CEST

  Great news all you folks that i have spoken to over the years and also to those i have not.
  
  A Mistress and i have found each other and within a storm of exciting emotion i have been captured and taken into account almost without being aware which in hindsight was what i was seeking without knowing so.
  
  I am now undertaking training and for all intent i now hope to become what i have longed to be - a sublime submissive.
  
  So Ladies, slaves, subs, and spammers i wish you well with your own paths to that special place where i now feel the edge of the atmospheric warmth. Thank you all.
  
  I wish to be around and i think i will for a while i will but ultimately it is not my decision and i revel in that as i have a Strict Beautiful Womanly Dominant Mistress Owner.
  
  dust at Her Feet
  
  
• sidvicious

  
   

  4. júna 2008 3:01:00 CEST

  Im going to reply to this due to the fact I am a femme financial domme and enlighten you on a few things, financial slavery is not just about the money nor has it ever been, like any fetish its about commitment and sacrifice, grant it with the fetish there are cons about it due to the fact many think its a quick way to make money where as in its not and is a actual relationship just like any bdsm relationship. Like any bdsm relationship it has to be SSC and financial slavery is SSC, also as a fin domme must have some morals and ethics and be realistic with the tribute requirement etc and not be greedy and demanding and and in it for only the money that again is not financial slavery!
  Bdsm has evolved period, and new fetishes are derived constantly, just because one does not understand the fetish or lacks the knowledge of it it doesnt make the fetish wrong nor those in the fetish wrong, just means that fetish is not for you, that wpuld be like me down slaying those into scat and golden showers or adult babies, its not for me nor do I condemn anyone for having those fetishes as I said its just not for Me I dont down side it nor do I slander those into it just because I dont understand the appeal of it, as mentioned Bdsm and its fetishes are evolving and if we critisize those who are into it we are no better then the vanillas who dont understand bdsm at all either. To each thier own, and with the evolution of things either accept it and try to understand it or just chalk it up again as its not for you, dont down play those who are into.
  
  
  on a side note each domme does things differently I dont look for subs they look for Me, there is a difference between need and want, a sub needs a Mistress, a Mistress wants a subs dedication, real dommes dont sub chase or hound subs into serving, a Domme never needs , a sub should have the humility and the balls to contact a Mistress he is interested in due to the fact he needs a Mistress, as said True dommes dont need to sub chase nor demand for a sub to serve!
• vpl_vp

  
   

  3. júna 2008 23:58:13 CEST

  Hi Thanks to all ror your views. But still searching for the special one!
• hrac69

  
   

  27. mája 2008 16:41:15 CEST

  wench_controller of course mistresses should not pray their slaves for a tribute. They must demand it. And real slave; on my opinion, won't wait until a mistress will ask him for money or present because will offer it for her until her request. I am not agree with you about that mistresses who requires a tribute are not real once. Some of them yes, but not all. I also was few times disappointed in studios by bad acting pro dommes. Only few of them are real dominant person by nature the rest are just kind of actresses who do domination as a job only. I am in my social life a very dominant and demanding person and can feel by my skin who is in front of me.. a real mistress or a girl-woman who just wants to be only get paid and provide me a service I expect as exchange.
  Anyway it is not fair at all to call all mistress who require a tribute as a not real once. Some of them are really super and very experienced and know how to handle slaves. Mistresses deserve our money just because spend their time with us and we slaves/subs should appreciate it and do not wait until a mistress asks us for money. It is our duty to pay them in any way we can. We should keep in mind that our money will help them to make their life more secure and comfortable. That's a point. If you respect your mistress you must pay.
• wench_controller

  
   

  27. mája 2008 15:58:22 CEST

  
  slave worm' if you like to give money to your mistress than thats fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However if myself was to accept tributes from subs than I would feel that I was a service and not a dominant - you see. So I feel its the wrong thing to do as there are some mistresses out there who call themselves mistresses so thay can pray on guys like you.
  What is wrong in being a gentleman and taking them out for a meal or buying them a dress?
  
  In my mind mistresses who require tributes are not real mistresses.
  A true mistress is one who cntacts you first and after a while getting to know each other will let you buy her lunch or a coffee. Don't be fooled otherwise gents, becaus your subs does not mean your stupid, does it?
• Nenufer

  

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  26. mája 2008 18:03:04 CEST

  Slave. worm, you are a dream of many mistresses. Your attitude is right and appreciated. Brilliant words about a tribute to the mistress. If all slaves thought like you all mistresses would be totally happy :-)
• harasin1

  
   

  26. mája 2008 14:50:38 CEST

  Dear all, Dear Ladies,
  it is quite difficult to get in contact with mistresses online. Most subs have tried in manifold ways to attract the attention of a mistress, with little or no avail. Many mistresses do not respond, either because they do not frequent the site, the messages or because they do not exist (there are many spammers on this site, i recognized). So many subs have probably started to send a quick test mail, to understand whether there is a real mistress behind the profile. and lets be honest, based on the scarce description of many mistresses, there is often little witty to base an email on. Maybe if you would care to respond, many of us may turn out smart, intelligent, interesting, far beyond the "hey miss i wanna submit" stereotypes. So give everybody a second chance! I guess it boils down to a typical communication problem of the web.
  
• giorgio12

  
   

  26. mája 2008 10:46:48 CEST

  I wonder why slaves/subs expect to get any service of any mistress for free. What is wrong if a mistress require a tribute? I think nobody of us will argue if we need to give a call to some service call numbers where you will be charged for the consultation or we don't argue if we have to pay in any shop or go to some consultant to get a pay consultation even we hear there not what we expected. So why you try to attack a mistresses who expect to be get paid for the time she spent with you? maybe you just give a shit on her needs and do not respect her time? Just accept the fact that there is nothing for free in this life and everything has own price. Mistress as any other person need to cover her daily expenses and pay all her bills. She can't be full from the air and your empty promises. It is from history that slaves must bring profit to their owners. What profit you can bring to any mistress if not willing to pay? You simply waste her time and try to use her on your own pleasure. I respect mistresses who require a tribute. Such mistresses value their time and skills. The others; on my opinion, are just into role play or need to gain their experience so it is the reason they train slaves for free. Slaves must provide or at least try to a high level of living for their owners or to be useful in any other ways in case slave is so loser and unable to make money for his mistress. If you do not accept this fact and this idea you can't consider yourself as a true slave. You are just a time waster and role player with wild fantasies. And some of "slaves" have a wrong attitude that a private mistress can be cheaper for them. It is a not true at all . In case you go to some pro domme you can see fixed prices for her service ..a private mistress can take all from you, including your money. Some "slaves" tell lot of nice words about their true love and so on but when it is time to prove they are simply unable to fulfill their promises. I think by share your money with your adorable mistress is a good prove that you really care about your mistress and want to do all the best for her.
  In my case I provided my mistress with copies of all credit cards and bank accounts so she is fully independent from me and never need ask me for the money. Yes, it is a risk and one day you can stay without any money.. but this matter of trust and attitude. By this time I am not ruined yet :-) and my mistress is a reasonable person who understand that I have to work hard to make this money for her.
  Dear mistress never do anything for free. Don't give such slaves even a small space to use you for their pleasure. You are goddesses and you deserve to be treated like a princesses. Send slaves who don't want to support you materially as far as you can. Such slaves don't worth your valuable time and attention.
  I would like to know if there is somebody who agree with my point of view on this subject.
• Deleted Member

  
   

  25. mája 2008 16:46:27 CEST

  I care fully studied the messageboards as well new profile. Unfortunetaly most turn either into illiterate (eastern dommes) or greedy requierements of tributes. Would be great to delete all posts and adds requiring tribute. (Presume the site will be 80% empty).S
• Bruce_Dickinson

  
   

  24. mája 2008 13:03:41 CEST

  apollo12, I completely agree with you and believe there are many real and nice mistresses who looking for slaves. It is not easy at all for a mistress to find a nice slave too. I fed up from the messages like " Hi, baby! wanna chat... or " I am a slave let's meet us... What a bullshit. I wonder if there is one mistress who will answer on such kind of message. I simply ignore them. Dear slaves, be more smart and creative and write your messages in polite and proper manner and only then hopefully you will get an answer.
• apollo12

  
   

  23. mája 2008 12:55:49 CEST

  i may be in a tiny minority, and may just have been incredibly lucky, but i really DID find a beautiful, amazing Mistress here. They do exist, She can't be the only one!
• Milos_1__

  
   

  22. mája 2008 11:26:51 CEST

  Well, I've asked him to be patient, because it's obviously impossible to find a long term mistress after having an account created about 48 hours ago.
  
  I wouldn't even rate the personal-offers too high - and don't believe many of them have found their soulmate here.
  
  Think it's just the wrong kind of board, because there are few suitable members. Too few (of both genders, if we concern Miss Sin's World), after separating the wheat from the chaff.
  
  Moreover this is a worldwide community, what makes it much mor difficult to fit into a profile.
  
  I've also found few nice contacts to chat with, but I'd not say that I would be able to find a long term mistress.
  
  I don't even think it's able to find anything long term on here. But I don't want to end up philosophic.
  I'm just quite conservative about that point and prefer getting in touch offline.
  
  Perhaps a pure UK-community would be better to find a mistress for fannylicker. Who knows?
  
  However I'm glad to know this community and have found some really worthy contacts here, too.
  
  Best wishes to both of you. Good luck!
• dustatyourfeet

  
   

  21. mája 2008 18:23:36 CEST

  'Patience'
  
  I have been here for 3 years and I have found the majority just want your money, or money for sex etc and the rest just send spam - whilst others give nothing at all.
  
  Opitmistic I am that I know there must be one out there who understands commitment, love and reality.
• Jardab

  
   

  20. mája 2008 12:38:48 CEST

  Patience!
  First of all, not all posts point to scammers. There are some julybaby-freaks who indeed pollute our pm-boxes with spam messages, but besides some accusation-discussions most people here are real persons.
  
  After a further look we see that there are very many submissive men and (in compare) just few still active dominant women. I would be surpised if they aren't bombarded with lots of offers like your one. The first ones they'll sort out will be the users who don't adress the Mistress in the right way; the demanding ones. But I guess there'll still be many offers to check.
  
  You can try the BDSM personals-section on the left. I'm afraid that interested UK-Mistresses are a challenging minority here, but I wish you the best.