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  • 28. apríla 2005 15:35:02 CEST
    Fact: You've been reading magazines again. Seriously, the man/woman hating concept is more a product of BDSM media, and certain political agendas, than reality. There are many web sites that cater specifically to the woman or man as bitch/bastard and the slaves as helpless, and "forced against their will although they really want it", servants. While that may be a fantasy for some, it can be perceived as an all encompassing scene reality to many since the distinction between the two isn't made. The flip side of this myth is that submissives are weak willed doormats who allow themselves to be coerced into anything the dominates wants. This is another product of media, both BDSM and vanilla, where the sub is seen as victim, not consensual partner. Does all this mean that no one in the scene has ever been a man/women hater? No, but those people are quickly recognized as such and have very few, if any, play partners
  • 15. marca 2011 22:38:52 CET
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  • 17. novembra 2007 12:11:22 CET
  • 28. októbra 2007 19:54:23 CET
    This is what BDSM should be like. However, according to my experience as a submissive, many dominant women behave to submissive men arrogantly, disdainfully, disparagingly, coldly, tersely, in an abrupt manner etc etc. Even on occasions where there is no BDSM, even in normal social circumstances. And then you begin seriously ask about their motives to be dominant and about their relation to men en bloc.
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    28. októbra 2007 17:38:54 CET
    There is no place of hate in EBONY MISTRESS LARA VICTORE neither, who clearly says "at the idea that I hate them". The truth is that forum was kind of silly and incomprehensible and Lady Lara gave us again something interesting to share.
    As for you, you were speaking differently in the forum REAL SLAVERY.

    Cruel Mistress Rule
  • 28. októbra 2007 0:55:42 CEST
    well, i do not take a man for my slave if i believe that he is unworthy, disguisting, desperate or with a lack of common sense and intelligente.

    i like to be proud on my male bitch.

    i like to see him on the glory trone knowing that he will crawl to me and submissively kiss my feet.

    there's no place for hate inside me. just a wish for improving to perfect, just a real happiness when i see him down there, where his place really is.

  • 27. októbra 2007 17:09:11 CEST
  • 23. októbra 2007 10:15:56 CEST
    IF THE MEDIA WAS INVENTED CENTURIES AGO, THE WORLD WOULD HAVE BEEN A BETTER PLACE... SERIOUSLY. I REMEMBER, AFTER THE FALL OF THE BERLIN WALL END 89, HOW MANY SOULS HAVE BEEN SHOCKED, IN OUR OUR WESTERN EUROPE, TO DISCOVER THAT THERE WERE ACTUALLY POOR PEOPLE IN THE HIDDEN EASTERN EUROPE..., ONLY TO CITE ONE EXAMPLE!
    But who cares about what the media thinks about BDSM? My submissives are weak men wanting to be coerced into expectations and have an orgasm at the idea that I hate them. And to Me all creatures born with a penis are weak, period. Many other REAL Mistresses or Superior Women will agree to that! Where do your submissive ones come from...if they are different? Oh, your profile F. is deleted. Fix it, someone!

    Whenever the media exposes or diffames BDSM, it does it a favor. People only fear what they ignore. But give them something well marketed or funnily presented, they will embrace it without hurting their brains. It is an individual responsibility to select and use whatever you see online...(But My Sony Vaio is one the best thingS in my life :)}
    I, personally, want more movies with flogging scenes, like Casino Royale, . Give Me that Daniel Craig in James Bond, anywhere, anytime! And many lifestylers have loved Bree's husband BDSM session in Desperate Housewives, even if they don't watch THAT show at Harvard's!
    BDSM is rarely made ugly in movies, except in Cops/crimes special-victims- whatever-kind, when they profile a serial killer with Sado Masochistic tendencies. Even then, it is more intriguing or why not confusingly exciting, when based on real life characters. But it does not mean that people in the scene will run into their dungeons and copy-cat the best parts!
    At the other token, the following in this forum makes me smile:
    I quote BDSM is the most beautiful thing...
    Hopefully, whoever said that MUST never have a bad experience nor open his eyes
    I quote New in the lifestyle or just learning...
    Young Mistresses and Dominatrix are always insulted in forums. I never got the reason why. Earth to you, some are busy since more than a decade in this lifestyle and still never learn or never get it...
    There are very good D Newcomers in the scene, they don't offer experience, but they offer passion and most importantly, they force no one to request their services. Besides, if you googledotcom "Dominatrix in courts", you will find out that almost all BDSM freaky accidents (letting a man die during bondage and dismembering his body and getting away with it because of lack of proof even after confession...) were committed by Dominatrix over 50 years old!
    IT IS GREAT THAT YOU SPECIFY THAT WHATEVER PEOPLE SEE ONLINE ABOUT SESSIONS AND D/S IS NOT REAL OR COULD HAPPEN ONCE A YEAR IN A BDSM COUPLE.
    BUT...EVERYBODY KNOWS BY NOW THAT MOVIES ARE FICTIONS... IF YOU WANT TO WRITE A BOOK TO PROMOTE OR GLORIFY BDSM, POWER TO YOU, BUT I WILL NOT BUY IT AS YOU HATE MONEY THAT MUCH. BDSM MAY REMAIN A SECRET FIELD, I DON T MIND, I WOULD NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE IDEA THAT MY CLOSEST ONES HAVE TO DEFEND THEMSELVES BECAUSE I CARRY A STRAPON AND A WHIP IN MY BAD SOMETIMES...AS A PARALLEL, I KNOW MANY GAY PEOPLE WHO REGRET THAT NO ONE CARES ABOUT THEIR GAYISM...EVEN THEMSELVES! sLAVE HAS LOST HIS JOB!
    THIS FORUM WAS CUTE.
    EBONY MISTRESS LARA VICTORE, PARIS, LA, NY
  • 23. októbra 2007 1:43:23 CEST
    OUCH!
  • 9. mája 2005 14:50:32 CEST
  • 28. apríla 2005 20:46:16 CEST
    Tex,

    Nice to see your reply.

    My point was to post some myths and then the facts. I do agree that a real BDSM relationship, one that is based on trust, open continued communication and always SSC, grows into the most beautiful of relationships. And what the all mighty buck earned by those big boys and women gives back to those who are just learning or new to the lifestyle, are myths and misconceptions for the most part.

    Peace,

    Francezka

  • 28. apríla 2005 20:16:45 CEST
    Well Francezka,

    I think that BDSM is just the most beautifull and intimate thing whatever you can experience with your partner.

    Why? The ultimate trust in each other to under go pain or lust in such a manner that you are completely in the hands of the other one. He or She can do what she wants witin the limits which are only known by the playing partners.

    So if you see a "session" or a "play" between a Dominant and a sub you can be sure both are heving fun.

    However the material found on the Internet and what regurlarly is seen on television series or films BDSM is always some dark and black and certainly "wrong" But the big guys of these shows know that everebody likes the unknown the bizar and thats big bucks nowadays.

    Tex