26. septembra 2007 5:09:56 CEST
you expect to read other people's real life stories in BDSM. because of my good taste in reading, when i want to read a story of that nature, i buy a book or i visit the so many sites where there are erotic stories (whether fictional or not, most are really inspiring, arousing, thought provoking, enlightening)
for a personal account to be successful, some literary tools are needed, and that discourages the majority of people from writing to tell about their own experience. and if they do write, that discourages many others from reading them, because precisely they lack literary standards.
I insist, for a good story, i resort to literary sites. what bdsm here needs is opinions, impressions, reflection, discussions, points of view. personal accounts end up being a passive thing, a user comes, reads it and eventually writes "nice story!!!" or get got bored.
that contributes to nothing, but to your own ego having your story read.
well, i must admit your forum contributes to something: to more confusion, people keep posting parts of a novel in these forums, when there is a section for that!!!!!thank you!!!!
when people reflect upon any issue that concerns them then they write, what they write is much more important than how they write that. thinking skills make us better individuals,and thus better dominants or subs or slaves.
I love it when my slave can also be a wonderful interlocutor, expressing his mind through his words(when he is not gagged, that is),otherwise i would buy a turtle of a golden fish for a pet!
but well, things go on this way, vanity here seems to predominate, Femdom's toplist?? according to RollingStones magazine perhaps?? Billboard's Mistresses world chart???
and dear, don't be so vain, you seem to be more interested in having YOUR story read, than in others adding theirs . . leave your ego aside, try with a little modesty, humility. it may work wonders!!!